Social Media and Relationships. Interesting Research from Palestine

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Modern marital relationships have undergone a remarkable transformation in the age of social media. Three researchers, Oqab Jabali, Bilal Hamamra, and Fayez Mahamid from An-Najah National University in Nablus, Palestine, explored the impact of social media on communication in relationships. Their findings were published in the journal Nature, Humanities and Social Sciences Communications.

“Modern relationships and social media: exploring the digital dynamics of husband–wife interactions” highlights how digital platforms have become an integral part of daily life, influencing communication methods and interactions. The study, conducted among 388 Palestinian couples from the West Bank, sheds new light on the issue.

Over 60% of respondents live in rural areas, significantly shaping their perception of social media. Couples from these regions exhibit a more optimistic view of technology’s impact on their relationships. Additionally, 40.2% of participants use social media for 2 to 4 hours daily, placing them in the moderate user category.

Social Media Builds Bridges of Understanding

One of the most significant aspects of the study is the analysis of social media’s impact on communication in relationships. The findings show that:

• 2.72 out of 5 points for improving communication between spouses through social media.
• 3.16 points for the ability to maintain contact during physical separation.

Despite its moderate impact on communication, platforms like Facebook and Instagram often help build bridges between partners, particularly in young relationships. In practice, this means more frequent interactions and easier access to emotional support, addressing the needs of modern couples.

Challenges of Technological Intimacy

However, not everything looks rosy. The report reveals that social media often becomes a source of tension:

• 3.73 points for perceived exposure to temptations and relationship threats.
• 3.34 points for increased jealousy and feelings of insecurity.

Examples include situations where partners monitor each other’s online activities, leading to misunderstandings and tension. In such cases, a lack of open communication can escalate conflict.

Impact of Demographic Factors

An intriguing finding of the study is the difference in social media perceptions based on gender, location, and education level:

• Women are more likely to view social media as a positive element in relationships.
• Couples from rural areas have a more optimistic outlook compared to city residents.

The table below shows variations in social media usage depending on the length of the marriage:

Years of Marriage	2–4 Hours Daily	4–6 Hours Daily	More than 7 Hours
Less than 5 years	56	36	12
6–10 years	24	32	12
11–15 years	28	16	0
More than 15 years	48	28	12

These data indicate that younger marriages more frequently engage with social media, likely due to greater technological proficiency.

According to social exchange theory (SET), relationships are based on a balance between benefits and costs. In the context of social media, benefits such as greater connectivity and emotional support are weighed against costs like jealousy and privacy disruption. Achieving balance requires conscious management of digital habits and open communication between partners.

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The study “Modern relationships and social media: exploring the digital dynamics of husband–wife interactions” was conducted in April 2023. The authors analyzed data from 388 couples from the West Bank. Respondents represented various demographic groups, including urban and rural residents, couples with varying marital durations, and different education levels. The study methodology relied on a 23-question survey addressing social media use and its impact on aspects of relationships like communication, trust, intimacy, and conflict resolution. The rating scale was based on a five-point Likert scale.

The full study is available at:
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-024-04289-3